News from Chabad Lubavitch of Mid Hudson Valley. 12/16/11

Chabad Lubavitch of Mid-Hudson Valley Newsletter

December 16, 2011

    Kislev 20, 5772

Parshat Vayeishev


KIDS MOVIE NIGHT!Saturday, December 17 6:30-8:00 PM

Featuring: the newly released film “Young Abraham”
Popcorn, Hot Cocoa and Marshmallows
Havdalah Service
Design Chanukah cards for hospitalized children
Chabad Center, 63 Vassar Rd. Poughkeepsie
All kids welcome!
Requested donation: $4 (maximum per family $10)
No charge for Chabad Hebrew School kids
RSVP at 463-5801 or e-mail
kids movie
Chanukah Lights Up the
Hudson Valley!
Please join us at these Community Menorah Lightings (listed below)
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Chanukah lights up Millbrook

For the third year in a row, Chabad of Mid Hudson Valley will bring the joy of Chanukah to Millbrook.

On December 20, Chabad will light up the Town of Millbrook at a public menorah lighting and a community Chanukah celebration on the front lawn of the Thorne Building on Franklin Ave at 5:30 PM. In addition to the lighting of a 9 foot menorah, there will be lively music, hot latkes, doughnuts and hot drinks! Free dreidels and Chanukah Gelt for all!

Chanukah Lights up the Hudson River 

Popular Hudson River crossing will be crowned once again on the second night of Chanukah, Wednesday, December 21, 2011 at 5:30 PM. Latkes, doughnuts and hot drinks will be served. Numerous elected officials, dignitaries and community leaders and members will attend.  

Chanukah Lights Up The Mid-Hudson Valley!

Chabad will be placing Menorahs in cities throughout the Mid Hudson Valley, including Dutchess, Ulster and Southern Orange County.


The largest Menorah in the Mid Hudson Valley is a 22 foot Menorah which illuminates downtown Poughkeepsie from its place at the Main Mall, across from the Courthouse. Chanukah begins this year on Tuesday December 20 through Wednesday December 28. The Menorah will be lit daily at 3:30 PM, with the assistance of a cherry picker, all eight nights of Chanukah. On Saturday evening it will be lit at 6:00 PM due to the Jewish Shabbat. Doughnuts, draidels and chocolate Chanukah gelt as well as hot drinks will be distributed to all.

Chanukah Comes To The Shopping Malls of America

Chabad of Mid Hudson Valley will be sponsoring Community wide Chanukah Celebrations at the largest Malls throughout the region. With a new and innovative way, this year’s Chanukah menorah lighting at area malls will include a 9 ft. Coin-Orah, a large clear Menorah filled with coins that will be contributed by lpeople and businesses in the area. The large Coin-Orah will need tens of thousands of pennies,or coins of any kind to be filled up. All the proceeds will be donated to a specail children’s scholarship fund for children and other charitable causes.  

The public is asked to bring the coins in advance by calling Chabad at 463-5801 or arriving early to help fill up the Coin-Orah.

There will be music and dancing, a special presentation by Kevin’s Komedy Kapers of magic, comedy and coin juggling and exciting Chanukah crafts and fun. Hot latkes, doughnuts and drinks, as well as dreidles and great raffle prizes!


This event is open to the public. All are welcome, and everything is free of charge.

In Poughkeepsie:

At the Poughkeepsie Galleria (Center Court), Route 9 in Poughkeepsie, (Center Court) Thursday December 22, from 5:00 – 7:00 PM.

In Kingston:

At the Hudson Valley Mall, Route 9W in Kingston, (Food Court) Tuesday evening December 27, from 5:00 – 7:00 PM.


For additional information or to volunteer please call Chabad of Mid Hudson Valley at 463-5801 or e-mail

For additional Chanukah events check our web site at:

Shabbat Sevices: Shabbat services will be held on Shabbat at 10:00 AM followed by a delecious kiddush and a great delecious “Cholent”. A special thanks to Emanuel Marcus for making the cholent.
Hebrew School: Hebrew School on Sunday from 10:00 AM – 12:15 PM.
Bagels, Lox and Torah (and Tefillin, too!): led by Rabbi Yacov Borenstein followed by a Torah discussion on the coming week’s Torah portion, upcoming holiday or any topic of Jewish interest.
Location: Chabad Lubavitch Center, 63 Vassar Rd., Poughkeepsie.
Date: Sunday November 20
Services @ 9:00 AM & Breakfast @ 9:30 AM.
Wednesday Morning Woman’s Torah class:
Come join us for Torah and Tea on Wednesday Mornings at 10:00 AM at the home of Hindy Borenstein, 36 Pleasant Ridge Dr., P’ok.
Indulge your mind with thought provoking insights from the weekly Torah portion and Jewish insights on contemporary issues. Warm your body with assorted hot teas and healthy snacks. tea
Class will be led by Hindy Borenstein
No previous knowledge or background necessary. Kindly RSVP by calling Hindy at 463-5801 or e-mail
Dear Friends,

A rabbi was bothered by the fact that he had never been able to eat pork. He flew to a remote tropical island and checked into a hotel. He immediately got himself a table at the finest restaurant and ordered the most expensive pork dish on the menu. As he eagerly awaited it to be served, he was shocked to hear his name called from across the restaurant. He looked up to see ten of his congregants approaching. Just his luck-they’d chosen the same time to visit the same remote location.


At that moment, the waiter came with a huge silver tray bearing a whole roasted pig with an apple in its mouth. The rabbi looked up sheepishly at his congregants and said, “Wow-you order an apple in this place, and look how it’s served!”

This week’s Parshah tells the dramatic story of how Joseph, as an extremely handsome young man, attracted the imagination of his master’s wife. She desperately tries to engage him in a relationship, yet he steadfastly refuses her.


Then came the fateful day “when he entered the house to do his work, and none of the household staff was inside. She grabbed him by his cloak and pleaded, ‘Lie with me.’ He ran away from her, leaving his cloak in her hand, and he fled outside.”

Humiliated and furious, she used the cloak as evidence that it was he who attempted to violate her. Her husband, Potiphar, had Joseph sent to prison, where he spent the next twelve years of his life until, through an astonishing turn of events, he was appointed viceroy of Egypt.

The question is: why was this episode recorded in detail in the Torah? The objective of these Torah chapters is to relate the story of how the first Jewish family ended up in Egypt. Thus, we read about Joseph’s sale as a slave to Egypt, his prison sentence and his encounter there with the king’s ministers. This ultimately leads to his release from prison and designation as viceroy of the country in a critical time of famine, which in turn causes his father and entire family to relocate to Egypt.

Why did the Torah find it necessary to relate the story of Joseph’s ugly struggle with his master’s wife? Why is it important to for us to know the detailed episode that caused his imprisonment?

The Midrash explains the meaning of the phrase that Joseph “entered the house do to his work, and none of the household staff was inside.” What type of work did Joseph come to do?

The Midrash says that the “work” Joseph came to do was to yield to her advances. After all of her unceasing pleas, Joseph finally succumbed to her. However, as the union between them was about to materialize, the visage of his father, Jacob, suddenly appeared to him. This caused Joseph to reject his urge and flee outside.

Here again one may ask: what was it about Jacob’s visage that inspired Joseph to deny such powerful temptation?

Let us reflect more closely on the psychological and physical condition of Joseph during that day when his master’s wife almost lured him into a relationship with her.

Joseph was an 18-year-old slave in a foreign country. He did not even own his own body, as his master exercised full control over his life. Nor did he have a single friend or relative in the world. His mother, Rachel, had died when he was nine years old, and his father thought he was dead. His brothers hated him-they were the ones who had sold him into slavery and robbed him of his youth in cruel fashion. One could only imagine the profound sense of loneliness that must have pervaded the heart of this young man.

This is the context in which we need to understand Joseph’s struggle. A person in such isolation is not only naturally overtaken by extremely powerful temptations, but very likely may feel that a single action of his makes little difference in the ultimate scheme of things.

After all, what was at stake if Joseph succumbed to this woman’s demands? Nobody was ever likely to find out what had occurred between the two. Joseph would not need to return home in the evening to face a dedicated spouse or a spiritual father, nor would he have to go back to a family or a community of moral standing. He would remain alone after the event, just as he was alone before it. So what’s the big deal to engage in a snapshot relationship?

In addition, we must take into consideration the power possessed by this Egyptian noblewoman who was inciting Joseph. She was in the position of being able to turn Joseph’s life into a paradise, or into a living hell.4 In fact, she did the latter, having him incarcerated for twelve years on the false charges that he attempted to violate her.

What, then, was the secret behind Joseph’s moral rectitude? What empowered a lonely and frail slave to reject such an awesome temptation? “The visage of his father Jacob”! That is what gave Joseph the extraordinary fortitude to smack his impulse in the face and to emphatically dismiss the noblewoman’s lure.

But why? Jacob was living many miles away, unaware even of the fact that his son was alive. What was the magic that lay in his physiognomy?

The Talmud presents an oral Jewish tradition that “the beauty of Jacob reflected the beauty of Adam,” the first human being formed by the Almighty Himself.6 Therefore, when Joseph saw the visage of Jacob, he was seeing the visage of Adam as well.

Adam, we know, was instructed by G-d not to eat from the fruit of the “tree of knowledge.” His disobeying of this directive altered the course of human and world history forever. Though he did something apparently insignificant, merely eating a single fruit from a single tree, this minuscule act still reverberates through the consciousness of humanity to this very day.

Why? Because every single human being is part of the knot in which heaven and earth are interlaced. G-d’s dream was not to be alone, but to have mankind as a partner in the continuous task of healing the world. With every action we do, we either advance or obstruct the drama of redemption; we either reduce or enhance the power of evil. Something eternal and Divine is at stake in every decision, every word, every deed performed by every single man, woman or child.

When Joseph saw the visage of Adam, he reclaimed an inner unshakable dignity like a candle of G-d lit on the cosmic way. Seeing the visage of Adam reminded Joseph how a single act, performed at a single moment by a single man, changed history forever.

This is the reason for the Torah’s recording of this story. During our lonely moments of misery, when we, too, may feel that nobody cares for us and we are alone in a huge, indifferent universe, we ought never fall prey to the easy outlet of immoral gratification. We must remember that something very real and absolute is at stake at every moment of our existence and in every act we do.

If you only open your eyes, you will see the visage of your father whispering to you through the silent winds of history that you are not an isolated creature in a titanic world whose behavior is inconsequential. At this very moment, G-d needs you and me to bring redemption to His world.

Shabbat Shalom, 


Rabbi & Mrs Yacov Borenstein

The Rebbe

To learn more about the Rebbe, click on the picture above.

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